Lucretia Serthra
Transgender of Turin - Italy, freelance and writer
CROSS THE BORDER OF THE RECTORY SEXUALITY
IN A HETEROSEXUAL COUPLE
Lucretia Serthra - wednesday 3 September 2014
Generally and initially in a pair the sexual relations are passionate, but over time the passion goes out and gives way to habit, to awareness, to routine, and other elements that transform the sexual passion in normal and foreseeable events. One can reasonably assume that this happens because the couple assumed to have reached a comprehensive level of mutual sexual knowledge, therefore, fades the innate desire exploratory or turns towards other horizons that do not involve the sexual sphere. To awaken the ancient sexual passion there are many solutions, but in the couple there must be mutual respect and trust, combined with the desire to liberate and confess their own erotic fantasies, even those blasphemous that violate the personal principles and those of social conventions, which often inhibit the sexual evolution of the couple.
TEMPORARY REVERSAL OF ROLE
IN A SEXUAL CONTEXT
A road very transgressive that you can experience within a heterosexual couple is the temporary reversal of role in sexual realm, namely the woman who portrays the role masculine, and the man one feminine ; this choice can reveal little by little unexpected scenarios for both partners as they are involved both physically and psychologically, so it is important to master the situation ...
THE SEXUAL AND EROTIC ROLE OF WOMAN
IN THE HER TEMPORARY REVERSAL OF ROLE
The female partner must play a dominant role with the help of fetish clothing and why not, even a horsewhip..., this helps the woman to enter more easily in her
role and at the same time projects an image authoritarian that clearly outlines her temporary supremacy elective. Finally, to strengthen and complete the picture,
the woman will wear a belt at which is anchored an artificial phallus that will use
to penetrate the masculine partner at the right time. At this point of situation
the woman begins to perceive its dominant role also psychologically, because unconsciously her masculine side emerges little by little...
THE SEXUAL AND EROTIC ROLE OF MAN
IN THE HIS TEMPORARY REVERSAL OF ROLE
The role of the male partner is prevalently passive, and it is subordinate to that of woman, and to enter the part is necessary a little of commitment and conviction; the woman must participate actively in the preparation of the male partner also in the make-up, clothing, underwear, shoes, and how much it can help to the temporary transformation psycho-physical of man; when the male partner will have familiarized with his new and temporary reality and its appearance will be adequate to the situation, then the game of couple will start with his spontaneous and endless variables...
TECHNICAL AND SEXUAL INFORMATION
If the couple decides to switch roles also for what concerns the coitus, namely the woman who anally penetrates the man with the artificial phallus (dildo), then you should do so with due awareness and prophylaxis.
In this game of couple the man is undoubtedly the passive element because it derives pleasure from his temporary psychological subordination, but also physical, because it reaches orgasm through the artificial phallus (dildo) that goes to stimulate his point L (the prostate), and since many nerve bundles pass near the prostate and arrive to the penis, the dildo exerts a constant pressure on the bundle of nerves that cause a nice effect that will bring a man to orgasm, but slowly and with a sensation widespread throughout the body, therefore man lives a new coition that perceives to female, and the woman to the masculine.
If during intercourse the woman wants to have a stimulation to the clitoris or the vagina, there are double artificial phallus (dildos) also with small balls that tickle the clitoris. Lastly, before you start the game of couple in order to avoid unpleasant surprises, man must free his rectum and intestines with an enema or other washes so that the contractions of the anal muscle can not expel unpleasant substances that would ruin the atmosphere of the sexual relationship...
The word Femdom or Female Domination indicates the role of domination exercised by a woman on a man (or another woman) to her submissive in context of an relationship or a sexual practice. Without arrive to extreme practices, you can circumscribe the femdom within the heterosexual couple as a game alternative at the rectory sexuality of the couple, but always in a conscious way and elective. The femdom allows to woman the exploration of own male side and to the man the female side, therefore, in theory, if the femdom is distilled with wisdom should contribute to the mutual interpenetration of the femininity and masculinity so that heterosexual partners can exchange temporarily the historical roles imposed by social conventions, and so desecrate many taboos deemed blasphemous... Therefore the femdom is not necessarily a lifestyle, but a road that you can undertake occasionally out of curiosity or to explore a different eroticism...
In field of femdom the woman undoubtedly has more power of man, hence a shrewd woman can gradually induce man to live a deep and extended femininity but especially to subordinated she..., becouse man in society will not speak never of his femdom experience for avoid being mocked and indicated as homosexual... Therefore the femdom is recommended only if there is extreme and mutual respect and trust, and if there are these assumptions, then the femdom life experience can be pleasant, enjoyable and open new horizons...
FEMDOM OR FEMALE DOMINATION
IN A HETEROSEXUAL COUPLE
